China often faces misconceptions in Western media, portrayed as a restrictive, authoritarian nation with low-quality products. Jof Roy, a Belgian livi
China often faces misconceptions in Western media, portrayed as a restrictive, authoritarian nation with low-quality products. Jof Roy, a Belgian living in China for 17 years, challenges these stereotypes. Married to a Chinese woman and working in manufacturing, he shares insights on safety, culture, and opportunities. This article, aligned with allwinchina.org’s mission, offers a fresh perspective to help foreigners understand China better.
Debunking Myths: Freedom and Safety
Western media paints China as a communist state lacking freedom. Jof disagrees, feeling “300% freer than in Belgium.” He walks safely at midnight and trusts his wife to go out alone. Unlike Europe, where he guards his wallet, China’s low crime rate ensures security. Jof leaves his phone on restaurant tables without worry. “China is the safest country,” he says, crediting strict laws and CCTV.
Cultural Differences: Dining and Driving
Jof arrived in China unprepared, facing culture shock. The population, mentality, and weather overwhelmed him initially. His Chinese wife simplified life by handling administrative tasks. In dining, the key guest faces the door, a tradition from less secure times. Among friends, seating is casual. Driving in China differs from Europe. Chinese drivers, often new, move slowly but unpredictably, ignoring mirrors or signals. Jof chose a Chinese electric car for its advanced tech, outshining traditional Western models.
Opportunities: Business and Lifestyle
China’s dynamic economy drew Jof to stay. “Business opportunities surpass Europe’s,” he says. The fast-paced market fosters entrepreneurship. A chance meeting can spark a successful venture. Unlike Europe’s slower pace, China feels vibrant. Shopping malls, like mini-cities, boast modern designs, kid zones, and indoor karting. Coffee culture grows, with brands like Luckin Coffee rivaling Starbucks, though tea dominates.
Raising Kids: Costs and Choices
Raising a child in China is costly. International schools, like Jof’s son’s French school, cost 200,000 RMB ($30,000 USD) yearly. Private kindergartens hit 60,000 RMB annually. Chinese parents prioritize education, driving up costs for activities like football or drum lessons. Jof considered state schools, free for citizens after kindergarten, for their discipline. He chose an international school for flexibility, despite the expense.
Patriotism and Rule-Following
Chinese people are “crazy patriotic,” Jof notes, displaying flags everywhere. They trust the government, following leaders’ directives swiftly. In contrast, Europeans often question authority. Rules are respected when enforced, like traffic laws with cameras. Minor violations, like ignoring traffic lights, occur in less-monitored areas. Foreigners must follow rules strictly, avoiding politics or missionary work.
Chinese Cars and Global Views
Chinese cars impress Jof with futuristic designs and tech. At auto shows, they outshine Western models. Prices match European brands, but quality competes globally. Many Chinese admire the U.S. as a success model, though growing national pride shifts perspectives as they travel and see global media.
Positive Mindset and Openness
Chinese people view success positively, unlike Western skepticism. A wealthy person “must have done something good,” Jof says. They approach foreigners with curiosity, practicing English eagerly. Parents urge kids to speak with foreigners, unlike Europe’s caution. Jof adopted habits like removing shoes at home and prioritizing hygiene, influenced by his wife.
Conclusion: A Vibrant China
Jof’s 17 years in China reveal a safe, opportunity-rich nation blending tradition and modernity. His story counters stereotypes, showcasing a welcoming China. For those seeking the real China, allwinchina.org offers insights into its dynamic culture and lifestyle.
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